lets just simply say.."meLinDa's not a love consultant.."
i'd definitely want very much to help you if you're having any problems in your love life...but please don't bank too much hope in asking me to help you to solve ALL your problems...somethings just happened for you to figure out how to go about handling that situation..
i'm not at all experienced...excuse me! meL only went through it ONCE! you may say i sound experienced..alrights..i don't deny..cuz i did encounter alot of problems once, with my friends telling me how to go about handling it..all i'm doing now is imparting whatever i know to you..
relationships are just part and parcel of life...going through it once really made me realise how much love there is in this world..the feeling of being loved by someone you love..the feeling of unhappiness..bitterness..jealously..just everything that you can't get if you weren't in a relationship..
day by day i'm seeing my friends fall in and out of relationships..even my closest cousin..some may take it really easy..others may just hold on to it and not let it go cuz they felt they had been really hurt..then again, many will feel the pain and will never let it go till someone else comes knocking at the door of their heart again..
some may open it up to a new relationship..others will just keep it closed, for fear of being hurt again..for fear of shedding tears..for fear of putting too much effort into a relationship that might not work out in the end..
for first timers..fear is the only word that will appear in their dictionary..fear of losing that someone they love for the very first time..fear of shedding those tears for the one they loved for the first time..fear of rejection..fear of facing to reality if a break was to occur..but experience is all they gain..
"did you feel very xin fu when you knew someone liked you??"
this question was thrown at me for (i hope) the last time..Yes i did! Go ask anyone there out on the streets..they might tell you the same thing..don't ask me why..just go experience for it yourself...and yar...why don't you give me a call then and tell me the answer?? & yes..i still do think of him once in a while..but alls over..we're both leading our own lifes now..
& girl..it is difficult to remain as friends after a break in a relationship..you're not wrong to say that..but you'll learn to figure things out when it happens..
the only advice i'll offer?? hmm..please take things slowly...build on the foundation...cuz without it, you'll end up being the one hurt in the end..
aBoUt LoVe..
10:10 PM.
