relationships, friendships..which is more important to you?
I'm in no position to answer this..it just strucked me that I was really brave to have had that taste of being in a relationship..to be loved, to love..
Most of us out here are looking for our One..but much to our dissapointment, even if we have thought we have found him something happens..you break up, you get hurt...and there you are back on your feet after a lost..looking for new love..
There is someone out there for each and everyone of us. But it all depends on FATE..to bring us together.
I was told.."don't worry! There'll be lotsa guys in the uni..especially in the engine courses."...yes I know that...but how many of them are attached? You mean you're going to stand there and have that guy break up with his GF just to be with you?? COME ON! mELinDa's not going to do that! Who's going to break up a couple who's been through so much together??
you told me that you wanted him to comfort you when you felt down. but ain't the approach too indirect?? & you expect him to know?? to a guy who's in his 1st relationship, he's just a little kid. Trust me! He knows NOTHING..much of everything he does was taught by his friends and acquaintances. & you were definitely right in asking him to get advice from his friends when something happens to the relationship. That was really brave of you actually..hehehe..(:
&.. he made me promise that I'd keep it a secret..but since you know about it, I guess you should let him know that he should try getting advices from his guy friends..I mean, its not that i don't wanna help..its afterall him trying to get advice from me..from a girls' point of view...so whatever I tell him would be what you would much expect..so its kinda bias..guys WOULDN'T do that..haha..&..I feel bad intruding into your lives. Afterall, a relationship is a process shared between 2 people. Although a 3rd person would definitely give better advice since the 2 of you are so involved, I guess somethings should be settled between the 2 of you yar?? (:
"so..have you ever wondered if its unfair or weird that people who do not have the looks have a bf and yet you don't?" COME ON! just what kinda question are you asking me?? how can you ever compare yourself to people you see on the streets? No doubt, you may think that you're better than them..but its their personality that makes up the person...its fate that brought them together...if you wait, you'll find...if you search, you may end up hurt..
I'm not saying that every relationship will blossom..neither am I saying that whenever a relationship begins, it'll end. It takes 2 to clap..it takes both party to give and take each time they fall out. But girls...if you have someone who loves you, give him that chance..give yourself that chance..afterall, don't go around looking for LOVE..wait for it to come knocking at the door of your heart.
Follow your heart. So long as you think it will end up well, why not give it a try? perhaps he's the one whom God is placed in your life, to LOVE & take care of you, to honour and respect you throughout your life's journey.
aBoUt LoVe..
8:27 PM.
