it was 1st aug 2006..7.15pm..he told me his whole life story in just 10 min..
before i continue, "the lakehouse" is a fabulous movie!! so catch it if you still haven't..hehehe..i was quite confused till the end..but the whole plot was just so interesting that it keeps you awake..hehe..nice movie! nice company! thanks*
alright...here goes..
their relationship lasted 8 months close to 9..she was a christian..he inititated the breakup..he thought alot..was sad for that very period of time before he finally told her..yet when he finally said it, he wasn't thinking of himself..instead, he was wondering if she was fine after hearing wat he had to say..
he hated her for controlling him...for trying hard to force him into accepting christianity...many of his close friends are christians..yet he remains faithful to his own religion..
his reason for breakup?? not because of religious differences..oh okie...perhaps it did play a part...but more because she didn't give him that freedom...she was thinking too much...she didn't trust him enough...
one incident?? he msged his really close pri school friend..a girl..asking her if she was at the event they were at..in the end, she wasn't..but when they were having dinner, his gf took his phone and saw the sent message..her face changed..he asked her wat happened..she just said "nothing"..yet, he knew something was wrong..just that he didn't know what it was..so they went home and he called her the next day..
she said he didn't care for her..then he knew..
he felt it was all so stupid of her to get so jealous..afterall, it was just a msg to his close pri school friend..he thought..it was over..
3 times! 3 times they broke up..the final time was true..he said he tried convincing her that it'll work out the other 2 times..but in the end, it was him who initiated it..
you think he wasn't sad?? you think he didn't think it through before making his decision??
mel! just what had gone through your mind during that time??
ben ben..do you know when you told me these, memories just came flooding back..it seems everything that happened in your life happened in mine..its so scary! :( yet it made me think how stupid i was to be doing all those stuff just like your ex..it made me understand how he* was feeling..
i finally know..
i don't want to repeat history..i don't!! :( i hate myself for that..if only i'd knew, things would have been different from now..
but ben ben..thanks for the company last night..had fun! (: oh wait! can we catch it at cathay the next time we're out?? hehe..
"spending quality time was a way we kept our relationship going...but still, it ended in a break..every sunday morning we'll spend time together..doing things that make us happy..even if its just for that very moment...even if its just for that few seconds..it makes the both of us happy.."
aBoUt LoVe..
10:35 AM.
